"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The MINDSET of Hooking Up.

mb121

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I'm curious what the mindset a man should have when he's hooking up with a chick physically. I know the urge is to just thrust your tongue down her throat and grab her ass, but this is surely not the best strategy.

How "slow" and "sensual" should one be?

How aggressive?

Is it all about being a tease...all the way throughout sex itself?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It depends on what mood you're in. Do you just want to **** the **** out of her or do you wanna make slow sweet sexytime?

You're the man. Do what you want when you feel like it. That's what keeps sex interesting.
 

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Done properly, it is much like an avalanche effect. You start off slow, building momentum, until it climaxes and everything is covered in the white stuff...er...

What always works for me is to start slowly and sensuously (you don't want her to think you're an animal...yet), get a good rhythm going, and when you can tell she's getting into it increase the speed. Talk dirty. Grab her ass. Whatever you feel you want to do. Then just kinda mix it up...if you're losing your cool, slow it down. Losing interest? Speed it up.

Sex is a lot like a playing a guitar solo (if you don't play guitar you might not understand where I'm coming from here, but I hope the analogy is fairly universal)...you want it to be soulful, emotive, and showcasing the best of your ability. And as far as tips, just learn the basics and then make it your own.
 
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