Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The MINDSET of Hooking Up.

mb121

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I'm curious what the mindset a man should have when he's hooking up with a chick physically. I know the urge is to just thrust your tongue down her throat and grab her ass, but this is surely not the best strategy.

How "slow" and "sensual" should one be?

How aggressive?

Is it all about being a tease...all the way throughout sex itself?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It depends on what mood you're in. Do you just want to **** the **** out of her or do you wanna make slow sweet sexytime?

You're the man. Do what you want when you feel like it. That's what keeps sex interesting.
 

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Done properly, it is much like an avalanche effect. You start off slow, building momentum, until it climaxes and everything is covered in the white stuff...er...

What always works for me is to start slowly and sensuously (you don't want her to think you're an animal...yet), get a good rhythm going, and when you can tell she's getting into it increase the speed. Talk dirty. Grab her ass. Whatever you feel you want to do. Then just kinda mix it up...if you're losing your cool, slow it down. Losing interest? Speed it up.

Sex is a lot like a playing a guitar solo (if you don't play guitar you might not understand where I'm coming from here, but I hope the analogy is fairly universal)...you want it to be soulful, emotive, and showcasing the best of your ability. And as far as tips, just learn the basics and then make it your own.
 
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