"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Masturbation Challenge!

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Today at around 2 AM I have decided that I will stop masturbating and watching porn. I have actually decided this many times LOL, but I had gotten to a little over 4 weeks a couple times. The last time I had gotten to 4 weeks, I was lucky enough to stumble upon this site. This was in the beginning of the 4 weeks and I was beginning to work on my confidence throughout those 4 weeks. Mind you I had looked at porn within those 4 weeks without splurging, but one time I couldnt hold back. =/ So that was the end of that. The problem was, after that I felt no motivation. I had gone back to my shy, low confidence self. I don't know why it was directly intertwined with my masturbating but who knows. I just felt better when I didn't, probably because I felt that I had more self control. And also I was getting horny but trying to control myself so that was another motivation to hook up with girls. So basically I want to stop masturbating as to have motivation to improve my confidence and DJ skills, because granted I did want to improve even when I was masturbating, but I felt no motivation. The reason I type this is that I feel that if I make it a concrete goal, that it will be achieved more easily.

Basically I want to improve my DJ skills and I for some reason whenever I masturbate, I lose all motivation to do anything about it. So from here on out, I'm not going to masturbate and I will finally be relieved by some hot girl.

And Day 1 starts...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You could also do like I used to do:
Masturbate every sunday. It makes your sexual rhythm a bit more suitable with the rest of the world. I think I'm going back to that pattern, should be fairly interesting.
 
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There's a goddamn thread about this in the archives. go there instead of 20 million of these threads.
 
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