"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The manly side of Valentine's Day

SheDevil

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ShortTimer - A constructive post?? For Me?? Be still my heart! No jabs, no snide remarks, are you well?

Just kidding with you, you are truly appreciated. Your remarks always seem to hit home, in a combatant, ruthless manner, but they do hit home and I look forward to your posts each time.

Giovanni Casanova - Ex's, God love 'em. Your posts and advise show you are a very experienced, well educated man, dont stoop to my ex's level or allow him to pull you down. I try to refrain from having the pissing contest he is trying to start, he makes it hard for me to remain, um, ladylike.

I have found THE PERFECT VALENTINE gift for him.

A Baby Boy!!!

No, I am not pregnant. A baby Golden Retriever!!

My love had a Golden Retriever for 15 years, he has spoken of wanting another.

Why didnt I think of it before?

A local vet gave me a name and I visited the pup an hour ago. He is 7 weeks old, bouncy, chunky, the runt of the litter and so beautiful. My vet has treated the pups for their first check up and gave them a rave review.

We have a large fenced yard, we do not travel often, we do have a "pup sitter" if needed. We can afford the needed vet care and proper pup food. We have no other pets. My love has the patience for proper training.

What am I NOT taking into consideration? I don't feel I am thinking with 'chick logic', what angles have I missed? Is there anything bad about this gift?

Next Monday evening the pup and I will be wearing only red bows around our necks, I want to see who my love reaches for first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by SheDevil
ShortTimer - A constructive post?? For Me?? Be still my heart! No jabs, no snide remarks, are you well?
I'm still trying to get over this cold actually. Perhaps that influenced my odd behavior. I apologize, it won't happen again... beotch!

Originally posted by SheDevil
Just kidding with you, you are truly appreciated.
More feminist lies!

Originally posted by SheDevil
Your remarks always seem to hit home, in a combatant, ruthless manner, but they do hit home and I look forward to your posts each time.
Combative? Rutheless? Me?

Awww do you really mean it? :eek: Shucks, I donno what to say!
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by SheDevil
Giovanni Casanova - Ex's, God love 'em. Your posts and advise show you are a very experienced, well educated man, dont stoop to my ex's level or allow him to pull you down.
Who says an experienced, well educated man can't call a sobby-ass-Nancy-boy a sobby-ass-Nancy-boy?
 

S.S.N. 318

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Originally posted by biker_gixxer
What would make the day special for you?

Sex. Keep your candy and your flowers. Dress up in something sexy and I'm happy.
^^^thats real right there....
 
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