"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Manipulated Man

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lol maybe the pre-feminist era wasn't so great after all.
 
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SgtSplacker said:
This is to help open some eyes out there. Highly recommended reading.
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Esther Vilar - The Manipulated Man : Esther Vilar : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive

The book argues that, contrary to common feminist and women's rights rhetoric, women in industrialized cultures are not oppressed, but rather exploit...
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splacker, you’re older than me and have been on this site longer than I have. This was published in 1998.Im not going to read something this old when I can just swipe on Tinder.

Just do your own thing. Feminists or whatever will hold you back but don’t let them hold back who you are as a person. All that stuff is fluff to bring you down.

You don’t need it.
 
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Hi Sgt Splacker,
Thanks for that,I shall try and get a copy....The brief reviews on the Internet
support the thrust of perceived wisdom on this site...published a long while ago,the German original was in the seventies,but still valid today.
 
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