"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alphawolfx

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"i love you will you marry me?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by walkguy
Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
Say: "What would you think of a guy and a girl that were good friends starting having sex with eachother?"

If she asks if u are talking about the 2 of you, then say that u have a friend that needs to know about it, and insists that she answers. Her answer should tell you if she would sleep with you or not, because in her mind she WILL be thinking of YOU and HER, and if she WANTS to sleep with you, she will deffinatelly not say something like " I think its wrong" or "i am totally against it" etc... so Try that out and let me know how it went;)



laterz...
 

alphawolfx

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if you start communicating interest without giving her a reason to be attracted, there go ALL your chances since she'll now start feeling awkward

seduce her first - play, kino, tease, fight, get her jealous, have an argument over something, kino more, kiss her
 
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