"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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walkguy

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Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"i love you will you marry me?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My 2c...

Originally posted by walkguy
Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
Say: "What would you think of a guy and a girl that were good friends starting having sex with eachother?"

If she asks if u are talking about the 2 of you, then say that u have a friend that needs to know about it, and insists that she answers. Her answer should tell you if she would sleep with you or not, because in her mind she WILL be thinking of YOU and HER, and if she WANTS to sleep with you, she will deffinatelly not say something like " I think its wrong" or "i am totally against it" etc... so Try that out and let me know how it went;)



laterz...
 

alphawolfx

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if you start communicating interest without giving her a reason to be attracted, there go ALL your chances since she'll now start feeling awkward

seduce her first - play, kino, tease, fight, get her jealous, have an argument over something, kino more, kiss her
 
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