"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"i love you will you marry me?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My 2c...

Originally posted by walkguy
Good morning fellow don juaners i have a question for you and if i could get some answers
ive been reading about the the seven magic words what are they and how can you turn that into a positive thing when you first meet a women
one more question also i have this lady friend ive known her for a while id like to suggest having sex with her , without breaking up a good friendship with her how do i bring up this subject gently with her we do touch each other intrusevly like ahand on the back , shoulder etc alot of hugging and quick cheek kiss now & then any suggestions is appreciated on both questions
have a great day walkguy
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Say: "What would you think of a guy and a girl that were good friends starting having sex with eachother?"

If she asks if u are talking about the 2 of you, then say that u have a friend that needs to know about it, and insists that she answers. Her answer should tell you if she would sleep with you or not, because in her mind she WILL be thinking of YOU and HER, and if she WANTS to sleep with you, she will deffinatelly not say something like " I think its wrong" or "i am totally against it" etc... so Try that out and let me know how it went;)



laterz...
 
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if you start communicating interest without giving her a reason to be attracted, there go ALL your chances since she'll now start feeling awkward

seduce her first - play, kino, tease, fight, get her jealous, have an argument over something, kino more, kiss her
 
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