She actually has 15,000+ in less than 1 1/2 years.Magma said:There's some chick that goes by TrialByFire that has something like 15,000 posts in about three years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She actually has 15,000+ in less than 1 1/2 years.Magma said:There's some chick that goes by TrialByFire that has something like 15,000 posts in about three years.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Then keep positng and everyone will forget and think "wait yeah this is a guy".Burrito Supreme said:I would normally be insulted that people assume that I am a woman, but coming from some of the people here, it doesn't bother me.
If any of you remember, I made a thread over the weekend, which was locked for some unknown reason, in which I clearly stated that I have a GF.
Hi Kamille. Care for a burrito supreme?Kamille said:N, I would post here, but I am worried the reception wouldn't be so warm.
It depends. Does it come with mistletoe?Burrito Supreme said:Hi Kamille. Care for a burrito supreme?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It comes with my own special sauce.Kamille said:It depends. Does it come with mistletoe?
I am thinking you're an LS SS crossbreed, but I still haven't figured out who you are.
Hot Sauce or the Fire Sauce?Burrito Supreme said:It comes with my own special sauce.![]()
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Whichever your little heart desires.slowgold said:Hot Sauce or the Fire Sauce?
Eric! Bet you don't know who I am! hee hee
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
and this sums up your message board:LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Female, man. And they send nudes if you PM them.Cr1msonKing said:Well I am impressed with how the LoveShack bombarding went.
I saw the thread when it first started by magma, and how a few members were really optimistic about it, and I started thinking about devoting some of my time to "bomb" LS. But I read a few more pessimistic posters, and they dissuaded me not to "waste" my time.
Its good that a few loveshack members are joining the community. But the question I have is, are they mostly male/female members?
Cr1msonKing said:Well I am impressed with how the LoveShack bombarding went.
I saw the thread when it first started by magma, and how a few members were really optimistic about it, and I started thinking about devoting some of my time to "bomb" LS. But I read a few more pessimistic posters, and they dissuaded me not to "waste" my time.
Its good that a few loveshack members are joining the community. But the question I have is, are they mostly male/female members?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
scratch is a keeper. If you are a man, I am "turned on", lol. If you are a chick, I still think you are hot.scratch said:I read those posts. I've said in no less than two other posts that this forum is better moderated than loveshack. I've gone on to elaborate that the area where this forum is no better, and perhaps even worse, is the extent to which there isn't an opposing viewpoint regarding gender superiority.
Edit: Let me elaborate. The men there can be braying asses, but on occasion they can also introduce an opposing viewpoint. Read my posts, if you wish. Here, however, there just isn't an opposing viewpoint. When I questioned you, didn't someone post "uh-oh, now he's gonna get it?"
You don't really feel that my posts here are primarily designed as ad homenim attacks or deflections, do you? In fact, by accusing me of poisoning the well instead of providing counterarguments addressing my points, are you not engaging in the very tactic of which you accuse me?
Commando said:That is pretty funny. :crackup:
I was thinking this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1aS...QUOTE] Thanks. I can't open your link.
I screwed up the linkage. It works if you put it directly in the go to bar.Burrito Supreme said:Thanks.
I can't open your link.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.