She actually has 15,000+ in less than 1 1/2 years.Magma said:There's some chick that goes by TrialByFire that has something like 15,000 posts in about three years.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She actually has 15,000+ in less than 1 1/2 years.Magma said:There's some chick that goes by TrialByFire that has something like 15,000 posts in about three years.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Then keep positng and everyone will forget and think "wait yeah this is a guy".Burrito Supreme said:I would normally be insulted that people assume that I am a woman, but coming from some of the people here, it doesn't bother me.
If any of you remember, I made a thread over the weekend, which was locked for some unknown reason, in which I clearly stated that I have a GF.
Hi Kamille. Care for a burrito supreme?Kamille said:N, I would post here, but I am worried the reception wouldn't be so warm.
It depends. Does it come with mistletoe?Burrito Supreme said:Hi Kamille. Care for a burrito supreme?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It comes with my own special sauce.Kamille said:It depends. Does it come with mistletoe?
I am thinking you're an LS SS crossbreed, but I still haven't figured out who you are.
Hot Sauce or the Fire Sauce?Burrito Supreme said:It comes with my own special sauce.![]()
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Whichever your little heart desires.slowgold said:Hot Sauce or the Fire Sauce?
Eric! Bet you don't know who I am! hee hee
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
and this sums up your message board:LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Female, man. And they send nudes if you PM them.Cr1msonKing said:Well I am impressed with how the LoveShack bombarding went.
I saw the thread when it first started by magma, and how a few members were really optimistic about it, and I started thinking about devoting some of my time to "bomb" LS. But I read a few more pessimistic posters, and they dissuaded me not to "waste" my time.
Its good that a few loveshack members are joining the community. But the question I have is, are they mostly male/female members?
Cr1msonKing said:Well I am impressed with how the LoveShack bombarding went.
I saw the thread when it first started by magma, and how a few members were really optimistic about it, and I started thinking about devoting some of my time to "bomb" LS. But I read a few more pessimistic posters, and they dissuaded me not to "waste" my time.
Its good that a few loveshack members are joining the community. But the question I have is, are they mostly male/female members?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
scratch is a keeper. If you are a man, I am "turned on", lol. If you are a chick, I still think you are hot.scratch said:I read those posts. I've said in no less than two other posts that this forum is better moderated than loveshack. I've gone on to elaborate that the area where this forum is no better, and perhaps even worse, is the extent to which there isn't an opposing viewpoint regarding gender superiority.
Edit: Let me elaborate. The men there can be braying asses, but on occasion they can also introduce an opposing viewpoint. Read my posts, if you wish. Here, however, there just isn't an opposing viewpoint. When I questioned you, didn't someone post "uh-oh, now he's gonna get it?"
You don't really feel that my posts here are primarily designed as ad homenim attacks or deflections, do you? In fact, by accusing me of poisoning the well instead of providing counterarguments addressing my points, are you not engaging in the very tactic of which you accuse me?
Commando said:That is pretty funny. :crackup:
I was thinking this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1aS...QUOTE] Thanks. I can't open your link.
I screwed up the linkage. It works if you put it directly in the go to bar.Burrito Supreme said:Thanks.
I can't open your link.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.