“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slowgold said:
No. The majority of guys in your little circle maybe, yeah...not men in general. No way. I've actually never run into men who think like this..thank god. I guess that's why I'm a little fascinated. It's like finding a new specimen of bug. You can't help looking.

But I'll let Burrito speak for himself..that's just been my experience with men in my realm.
So do you think you know more about men huh? Do you really think men tell you what they really believe or tell you what they think you want to hear to get in your panties? Those same guys say a different thing when you're not around and they're among other guys. You're so gullible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Of course, penkitten is right. I need more self-control here.
 

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slowgold said:
ahahahaHAHAHA, wow. You guys crack me up. They didn't do it for YOU or anyone else on here. It's just something we all do every so often.
Bit of a coincidence though wasn't it? Just when we've judged one pic, all the other girls put theirs up too. And talked about the SS responses they got to them. As my little cousin used to say 'you think what you think and I'll think what I think.'
 

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name me 2 men who joined from Loveshack?

Burrito is a woman
Lishy is a woman
Kamille is a woman
Hombre was a woman (was cuz that **** was banned)
slowgold is a woman

where are the men?

and what are these women here for??? WHAT ARE THEY FVCKING HERE FOR??

PenKitten is very smart and sees thru the bullshyt, good for her

Penkitten is legit because shes actually married to someone from this site, i understand why she posts here despite being a woman
 

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Total Control said:
name me 2 men who joined from Loveshack?

Burrito is a woman
Lishy is a woman
Kamille is a woman
Hombre was a woman (was cuz that **** was banned)
slowgold is a woman

where are the men?

and what are these women here for??? WHAT ARE THEY FVCKING HERE FOR??

PenKitten is very smart and sees thru the bullshyt, good for her

Penkitten is legit because shes actually married to someone from this site, i understand why she posts here despite being a woman
Do you not know how to READ?! Read Burritos's thread. Read where he said "I'm your Daddy."

Screw this...I can't deal with people who can't read.

There are other LS men too but you guys are so set in your ways and you won't see it. It explains so much...sooooo much.

Have a great night everyone!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Since it's the last time we'll ever hear from you, ever, bye slowgold.
 

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Total Control said:
where are the men?
well i think on sunday i counted like 90 something new members.
like 5 or so of them have posted, so 85 people are silent right now.

some of those people have got to be men.
i hope they like how diversified the site is.
there are all kinds of men that belong to this forum that are so different and unique from all around the globe.
no one has everything in common with everyone, which is why this site is so great when you need to step out of the box and think .
no one is going to agree with everyone on any discussion forum.
 

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penkitten said:
if you see a newbie named after a taco bell product with 80 posts in 2 days stop arguing and hit the ignore user option.
Actually this deserves to be re-quoted for pure comic value.
 

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penkitten said:
basically what men did come over from loveshack have been silently waiting for all the female loveshack trolls to get banned or get bored and leave , so that then they can come out of the shadows and feel free to post without having the others copy and paste it back over on loveshack to laugh at them.

why are the love shack women laughing?
to embarrass them, ridicule them, and get them to think that this site is (what were the exact words, oh ...) sostupid, sopathetic, and a cult.
why would they want men to believe that?
CONTROL!
yah, i said it.
too many women want men to do what they tell them to , play their little games, jump through their hoops, hand over their paychecks and sit down and shut up and just answer "yes dear".

haven't you had enough?
enough!

quit playing their little games.
if you see a newbie named after a taco bell product with 80 posts in 2 days
stop arguing and hit the ignore user option.

once you stop giving the attention to the drama, the trouble makers will leave.

the ones that stay, truly want to know what this site is about.
those are the ones that i want to read threads about. the ones that are waiting patiently for this site to be done with the drama and get back to what it is all about.

Great post Penkitten!

Personally, what I think is happening here, is several LS ladies feel "scorned", and thus are trying to bait us into a pointless banter back and forth..thus stroking their own egos.

And, it looks like it's working because this is now a 34 page thread.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Total Control said:
why was my post about the loveshack trolls deleted?
My thread with this title was merged with the previous Loveshack thread. I think the Mods want just one Loveshack thread around here. Also, threads with just a short sentence are often deleted, what was your point?
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Personally, what I think is happening here, is several LS ladies feel "scorned", and thus are trying to bait us into a pointless banter back and forth..thus stroking their own egos.

And, it looks like it's working because this is now a 34 page thread.
i certainly agree with you on that one, which is why even posted at all on this thread.
i suddenly miss lms, wyld and nss ... this crap would have been over with that very night!
so in the words of the great nss, "STOP WASTING PRECIOUS BANDWIDTH"!!!
that about covers it right?
 

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slowgold said:
Screw this...I can't deal with people who can't read.

There are other LS men too but you guys are so set in your ways and you won't see it. It explains so much...sooooo much.

Have a great night everyone!
Did you just see yourself in the mirror?
 

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penkitten said:
well i think on sunday i counted like 90 something new members.
like 5 or so of them have posted, so 85 people are silent right now.

some of those people have got to be men.
Isn't it usually the case that when someone is never silent they tend to be a woman :D? What's really ironic is, Penkitten you're the exception that all these other women claim to be the exception but aren't.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr.Positive said:
Great post Penkitten!

Personally, what I think is happening here, is several LS ladies feel "scorned", and thus are trying to bait us into a pointless banter back and forth..thus stroking their own egos.

And, it looks like it's working because this is now a 34 page thread.

I basically agree with you and Penkitten. They're getting some attention, however I think they're going away sorely disappointed :kick: .
 

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WHAT THE FUKK IS MMA?! WHAT THE FUKK IS LS?! LONESILVER (scratches head, no can't be, all of a sudden, capillaries bursting) RAHHHHH!! LOVESHACK! LOOKS LIKE A BUNCH OF PLAIN-JANES NEED TO BE PUT IN PERSPECTIVE!
 

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scratch, Would you be willing to do something for me?

scratch,

Would you be willing to do something for me? A small favor for a complete stranger. . .

Would you be willing to give a critique of the initial posts in this thread? I understand that it may have gotten buried in the discussion/debate you were having earlier with some other posters about the importance of opposing viewpoints and whether they exist on this forum.

I realize that given the volume of posts in this thread my request here may also be buried by the time you're on here again. If that's the case I'll just ask again later on and hope to catch you then.

You seem fairly articulate - a rarity just about anywhere these days - so I was wondering if you'd be open to giving an interpretive analysis of the ideas that Rollo calls "operative social conventions." It's hard to get regulars of this forum to critically consider these ideas, let alone an external voice.

Would you be open to accomodating my request? I'd be really curious to hear your opinion - that of a forum outsider - on the validity of these particular ideas.

Thanks either way,
RP
 

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I would normally be insulted that people assume that I am a woman, but coming from some of the people here, it doesn't bother me.

If any of you remember, I made a thread over the weekend, which was locked for some unknown reason, in which I clearly stated that I have a GF.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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