"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WesCottII said:
I'm sorry, but what do you hope to achieve here?
A laugh. Saving souls is a bonus.

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And look at yourselves, grown men planning "assualts" on another online forum. It's like the sharks Vs. The Jets (perhaps less gay...) Have you honestly nothing more productive to do with your time?
Not right now, no.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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At least you're honest.....

I'll post my DR when I get back.
 

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Not right now, no.
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Is this loveshack thing a big deal?
 

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They are being annoyingly reasonable so far.

I first posted there a while back.

http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/t132346/

(Is It Wrong To Smell Manly Now?)

That was fun. Today I picked on their 'Other Man/Woman' Forum.

http://ww.loveshack.org/forums/t148114/

(Ration Of Men To Women Using This Sub-Forum)

And just in random threads, spreading wisdom and cheekiness. Saw Keto and Karma there, anyone else?
 
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Well I just went over to LS and registered. I looked around for a few moments and to tell you the truth I don't know if I can stand to read that stuff over there. I'm kind of with Francisco in thinking what good would it do to waste my time over there. I'd just be metaphorically pulling my hair out. Then I thought about doing something along Rollo's suggestion. I'd play along as a quesion AFC but in reality I would be actually be question their beliefs. Then Mr. Elor's suggestion of attacking in masse and by force sounds intriguing and fun too. I figure whatever the plan is, might as well have some fun with it.
OK, for sh1tz n' giggles why not post an actual thread from this forum over there; one which has tons of drama. Perhaps MNIN's New Years night of mayhem? :whistle:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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They are being annoyingly reasonable so far.


And just in random threads, spreading wisdom and cheekiness. Saw Keto and Karma there, anyone else?
I've been playing the hopeless AFC under the psuedonym Dagger Kockburn. I am going to act as if my eyes have been opened for the first time and perhaps inspire other "men" over there to follow suit. But you're right, they are being annoyingly reasonable. I have a feeling that is about to change very soon...
 

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But for there to be drama you have to take yourself too seriously, lol.
 

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I've been playing the hopeless AFC under the psuedonym Dagger Kockburn. I am going to act as if my eyes have been opened for the first time and perhaps inspire other "men" over there to follow suit. But you're right, they are being annoyingly reasonable. I have a feeling that is about to change very soon...
I realised Dagger wasn't for real a little late, good acting. Serial Muse now thinks we're the same person, haha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Magma said:
I've been playing the hopeless AFC under the psuedonym Dagger Kockburn
Oh my..... what a username...hehehe.
 

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Haha!! I know dude. What's our next move?
I've got to go out for a stupid real world business meeting. Hold the fort and I'll be back later!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm on there too, but I'm not going around woman bashing on that forum. That's no way to get through to an AFC who supplicates to the poor innocent females who are always getting bashed by the jerks. It's only going to re-inforce guys to continue being nice to women and have hope that they'll get laid one day soon.

Pointing out the flaws of feminism is fine, as long as you back things up with facts, experiences, or real-life situations. But the way to get to those men is to start simple: point out what happens in the REAL WORLD and make him think. Men who have their heads full of fantasy and Disney stories desperately need to start thinking logically.
 

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Reset: I'll quote it:

...with the latest round of "women suck," "they only date guys who treat them like crap," "they want to be slapped around," "I hate 'em but I'd screw 'em" threads.

What is happening to this place?? It is seriously laughable to me that ANYONE would say this site is female-dominated. There may be more women than men on the boards overall, but in terms of the focus of the threads - I do NOT see women starting "all men suck and need to be put in their place" threads, but periodically the women-hating threads crop up again, such as this latest round.

I'm just so tired of the stupidity.

Edited to add - for the record, I am not saying anything about the vast majority of men on LS, just the yahoos who pop their heads in and decide to stir up crap. It's frightening.
 

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Anti-ss, love it. Sometimes I guess it's good to see the female perspective (or feminine male perspective) on this stuff. Kind of like before and after.

I have decided to not take women's input very (if at all) seriously anymore. They don't even know what they want or need. It's a waste of time.
 

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Anti-ss, love it. Sometimes I guess it's good to see the female perspective (or feminine male perspective) on this stuff. Kind of like before and after.

I have decided to not take women's input very (if at all) seriously anymore. They don't even know what they want or need. It's a waste of time.
I can't stand feminine male perspective... Most of it is based on ego, long standing belief, and their mothers word. Very little comes from experience.

Sort of like this guy:

Ok so I met a new girl about 5 days ago. We seem to click on many levels intellectually and spiritually. She says she thinks I'm a handsome guy and she likes the fact that I'm tall too.

We've been out on one date so far. I have another date with her this coming Thursday. Now I know it's too early to be worrying about sexual intimacy since we have only known each other for less than a week.

But if the dates just so happen to progress to a point when she wants to go to bed with me and I turn her down will I be in danger of being put in the friendzone?

Again it's still early but I have no desire to be sexually intimate with her or anybody else for that matter ever in the future. At the same time I don't want to be put in the friendzone. It's either all or nothing for me.
 

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That was a painful read, that sounds like me in high school.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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