“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Envy is a natural emotion. It drives you to become greater. It is nothing wrong with being envious. But when envy is suppressed, it becomes jealousy. Jealousy is a toxic emotion. It is making the statement that you don't believe you can achieve the same result of the person you are envious of, and also you feel offended that that person even exists. Jealousy seeks to tear others down while envy serves to elevate you to greater heights.

Many guys don't know how to maturely navigate their emotions so they suppress their envy and become more enraged, which is not healthy. You have to acknowledge your envy and respect the player. And then seek to strive to his level.
Don’t forget your breaking one of God’s Ten Commandments if you envy. ‘ Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s possessions’. At the end of the day, it’s okay to want things but not need it.

But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.
 

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But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.
I think no good can come from envy. It's worse than all the others, schadenfreude as well. Pride, I guess, should be a good inspiration to do better. Or carried on a wave of love of self and those you want to love.
 
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