"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the loser mentality by joe rogan!!

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Envy is a natural emotion. It drives you to become greater. It is nothing wrong with being envious. But when envy is suppressed, it becomes jealousy. Jealousy is a toxic emotion. It is making the statement that you don't believe you can achieve the same result of the person you are envious of, and also you feel offended that that person even exists. Jealousy seeks to tear others down while envy serves to elevate you to greater heights.

Many guys don't know how to maturely navigate their emotions so they suppress their envy and become more enraged, which is not healthy. You have to acknowledge your envy and respect the player. And then seek to strive to his level.
Don’t forget your breaking one of God’s Ten Commandments if you envy. ‘ Thou shall not covet your neighbor’s possessions’. At the end of the day, it’s okay to want things but not need it.

But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.
 

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But yes, I agree being envious can be a good inspiration to do better. Cheers.
I think no good can come from envy. It's worse than all the others, schadenfreude as well. Pride, I guess, should be a good inspiration to do better. Or carried on a wave of love of self and those you want to love.
 
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