"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Darth said:
What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
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Sometimes when you are flowing through a high energy dynamic conversation, it becomes tough to notice every single IOI such as "the look".

The look of an IOI is basically of two types -

1. she has a big smile, with eyes wide open, nodding at everything lol

2. doggie dinner bowl look - she accepts the little girl frame and has the look of talking to a really cool guy :)

I'd recommend looking for open body language, smiles, personal questions, hair touches etc.
 
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he's talking about the eye contact. you coulda probabily said something along the lines "i am gonna go get some coffee, why don't you join me".. and then go on a coffee date and invite her over to your place after and you coulda probabily boned her within 1 hour of meeting her or even less.

when a girl gives you the look, she already wants to BONE YOU. all she needs is a place to do it and she wants to know you aren't crazy.
 
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