"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The look

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What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Darth said:
What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
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Sometimes when you are flowing through a high energy dynamic conversation, it becomes tough to notice every single IOI such as "the look".

The look of an IOI is basically of two types -

1. she has a big smile, with eyes wide open, nodding at everything lol

2. doggie dinner bowl look - she accepts the little girl frame and has the look of talking to a really cool guy :)

I'd recommend looking for open body language, smiles, personal questions, hair touches etc.
 
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he's talking about the eye contact. you coulda probabily said something along the lines "i am gonna go get some coffee, why don't you join me".. and then go on a coffee date and invite her over to your place after and you coulda probabily boned her within 1 hour of meeting her or even less.

when a girl gives you the look, she already wants to BONE YOU. all she needs is a place to do it and she wants to know you aren't crazy.
 
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