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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The look

Darth

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What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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daygameguy

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Darth said:
What exactly is "the look." This is the third time I've finished talking to a girl and walked away and the guy next to me says, "Did you see that look? Chicks don't give out that look to everyone. She was really into you."

Maybe I'm just oblivious, but how would I go about detecting this look so I can take action right away. Usually it's at the tail end of a convo. All I've noticed is just a smile and really hard eye contact. It's irritating that other guys identify it but when I'm the one in the conversation, I apparently can't.
Sometimes when you are flowing through a high energy dynamic conversation, it becomes tough to notice every single IOI such as "the look".

The look of an IOI is basically of two types -

1. she has a big smile, with eyes wide open, nodding at everything lol

2. doggie dinner bowl look - she accepts the little girl frame and has the look of talking to a really cool guy :)

I'd recommend looking for open body language, smiles, personal questions, hair touches etc.
 

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he's talking about the eye contact. you coulda probabily said something along the lines "i am gonna go get some coffee, why don't you join me".. and then go on a coffee date and invite her over to your place after and you coulda probabily boned her within 1 hour of meeting her or even less.

when a girl gives you the look, she already wants to BONE YOU. all she needs is a place to do it and she wants to know you aren't crazy.
 
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