mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Fine as fvck and fvcking constantly.Hahaha
It's a good tactic to get men to toe the line, I wonder how many here are that gullible.
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Fine as fvck and fvcking constantly.Hahaha
It's a good tactic to get men to toe the line, I wonder how many here are that gullible.
Women can fall in love with you when you lose blue pill programs. And they will fight for you.I see this happen to a lot of guys as well, sh1t im only 26 too. Most of my friends who I used to game with on the weekends ALL got married. It's like once 24-25 set in, they realized "Oh wow, I really need to have a kid and get married or ill die alone." I think it's been accelerated a bit, the "die alone" concept, because social medial romanticizes getting married "young" and chastises the player life.
I'm half and half. I know I don't want to get married, nor do I care about dying alone. I think that's utter bullsh1t. I had to do a geriatrics rotation in med school, and the guy who I had to check up on was a 73 year old bachelor, very rich, and never married. The guy could NOT be happier. He said the one thing you have to do is make sure to always have purpose in life. He still worked a bit, always made time for friends, and never felt lonely. He was very real too. He said it was foolish to get married. Kids and a wife will drain you of your soul and money , as he said. I believe him. I don't even know half my friends anymore because they are legit stitched at the hip to their wives, for no good reason. Hell, one girl almost broke up a friendship him and my buddy have had for 10+ years and she has only been around a few months.
well saidThe man I have been dating has the same perspective as the OP. The player’s life can be lonely, empty & meaningless. But for men who haven’t reached player status it’s romanticized and sought after to such a degree that men who haven’t been there won’t believe you.
They can’t. They don’t realize how other people will use the player for their own aims, they don’t know that pursuit of sexual pleasure for pleasure’s sake deprives you of meaningful connection with another human being, and they are short sighted.
I’ve known many players over the years personally as friends. I married one & I’m seeing one now almost 2 years in.
Today my BF was telling me about his best friend. The best friend is tall, great looking, successful and a good man. He’s in his early 50s and has no issue attracting women. He’s so over endless rotations of plates. He has no companionship, nobody who knows his “story” as Paul Zanka would put it, no wife, no kids, etc. His friends have families and meaningful relationships in their lives and his friends don’t have meaningful time to spend with him because they have more fulfilled lives with their family.
He is disillusioned. A man I know is in the exact same boat. He’s a retired professional athlete, successful, handsome & great looking...mid 50s as well, and also a lifelong bachelor. Exact same feeling about his life. Like he’s missed the boat chasing pleasure and missed out on meaning. It’s sad. That time is gone for good. But 20 years ago neither one of these men would have thought this is how they would feel in their 50s.
My guy is seeing that same writing on the wall. He worries about growing old alone. Even though women flock to him. He has few real friends. My ex husband struggles with it too. Same thing. Loneliness and few friends & waning desire to endlessly chase women.
Maybe it’s that men hit the wall roughly 10 years later than women...but age comes for us all eventually.
I like what Jordan Peterson has to say on the subject. Seek meaning instead of pleasure...but pleasure is a most seductive pursuit, so it’s tough when the disillusionment sets in.
That’s not lonely in my book.I tend to agree with the OP. I kind of fell into it for a few years and it was fun for a while but, ultimately, pretty unfulfilling and, unless you were getting called for sex, lonely.
OK maybe lonely is the wrong word but jumping from bed to bed for nothing but NSA sex does, believe it or not, get boring. At least it did for me.That’s not lonely in my book.
I would still want to find out for myselfOK maybe lonely is the wrong word but jumping from bed to bed for nothing but NSA sex does, believe it or not, get boring. At least it did for me.
While we're on this subject, I was watching a documentary on the Donner party last week. The Donner party was a group of settlers traveling west to California in the 1800s, who got caught in the mountains in a severe winter. Some starved and some resorted to cannibalism. Anyway:Fair question. It's all relative. There are some solid, reliable women out there who will have their man's back, even or especially after many years. A lot of that depends on the type of man as much as the woman though.
That’s the essence of what various player/playboy types tell me. After a while it’s another pretty face, and another body. Big deal. No connection and often not even likeable as a person. These guys get disconnected from themselves and their own emotions when they have been so promiscuous that sex is no longer associated with love. It makes it tough for them to bond and it’s too easy to NEXT at the first sign of trouble in any interaction.OK maybe lonely is the wrong word but jumping from bed to bed for nothing but NSA sex does, believe it or not, get boring. At least it did for me.
Agreed.These guys get disconnected from themselves and their own emotions when they have been so promiscuous that sex is no longer associated with love. It makes it tough for them to bond and it’s too easy to NEXT at the first sign of trouble in any interaction.
It's impossible to be lonely in the modern world with all the gadgetry available at the tip of ur fingers.Most of my loneliness has to do with unfullfillment, before I thought it was caused by a lack of care and bonding from another person,but when I dug deeper I started to realize it was a nagging unfullfillment in my hero's journey. This lead me to a relationship with patience which I am cultivating
If you really want to get hardcore about not being lonely then pursue inner peace and joy not happiness but joy.When you have inner peace and joy then loneliness cannot exist.The way you can get complete joy is by selling everything you have and giving it to the poor.This is a spiritual thing not a physical one that's why it seems not to make sense.This is what Jesus preached and it works but again very few people do it because it is hardcore the reward God gives you is peace and joy along with other rewards and blessings.When you deny yourself you transcend money,women,possesions and most importantly you transcend yourself...that is the only true worship and the only true peace.Anything can get boring if you're unfulfilled