"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The line between c/f and arrogance...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DjDan said:
... I feel sorry for you... .
I'm flattered that I enthrall you so much that you have such feelings. :flowers:
 

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beastmaster79 said:
nice posts backbreaker and franciso

francisco, you said that C/F allows you to appear fun, etc. to girls C/F is fun. they aren't thinking does this guy seem fun. you just put them in a good mood so they are attracted to you. the ****y part makes them feel that you are a challenge and maybe they might have to work to get you.
That you are not a pushover and just another AFC? Absolutely!

beastmaster79 said:
girls are much more influenced by their feelings than by appearances.
I wouldn't say that too loudly around here. ;)
beastmaster79 said:
you can use appearances to impact their emotions but it is how you make them feel that really counts. this is why it is confusing that DJ's come in so many shapes and sizing. you can think girls like guys that look like this or have that job, etc. but the main thing DJ's have in common is making girls feel attraction. what counts is how we use what we've got to create these feelings. there are many ugly men who draw women to them and there are many good looking men who repel women. some have game and some don't.
Like I've always said, a DJ can make a woman feel better about herself when she is with him.
 
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