"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The line between c/f and arrogance...

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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DjDan said:
... I feel sorry for you... .
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I'm flattered that I enthrall you so much that you have such feelings. :flowers:
 
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beastmaster79 said:
nice posts backbreaker and franciso

francisco, you said that C/F allows you to appear fun, etc. to girls C/F is fun. they aren't thinking does this guy seem fun. you just put them in a good mood so they are attracted to you. the ****y part makes them feel that you are a challenge and maybe they might have to work to get you.
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That you are not a pushover and just another AFC? Absolutely!

beastmaster79 said:
girls are much more influenced by their feelings than by appearances.
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I wouldn't say that too loudly around here. ;)
beastmaster79 said:
you can use appearances to impact their emotions but it is how you make them feel that really counts. this is why it is confusing that DJ's come in so many shapes and sizing. you can think girls like guys that look like this or have that job, etc. but the main thing DJ's have in common is making girls feel attraction. what counts is how we use what we've got to create these feelings. there are many ugly men who draw women to them and there are many good looking men who repel women. some have game and some don't.
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Like I've always said, a DJ can make a woman feel better about herself when she is with him.
 
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