Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Because the government wants to control everything. Like you, I don't use it. But I can't see any argument for weed being illegal when alcohol is not only legal, but is deemed "essential" during pandemics. I would think between the two, alcohol is far more harmful, and it isn't even close.Also I dont understand how can you jail someone for selling a kinda safe product to someone who willingly buys it and such product has no effect on third parties.
Weed is much better than Fentanyl.1000%. I remember George Carlin saying years ago, Big Pharma does not want to pick a fight with marijuana because it will lose badly.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Agree, never heard of a guy that smoked too much then beated his wife.Because the government wants to control everything. Like you, I don't use it. But I can't see any argument for weed being illegal when alcohol is not only legal, but is deemed "essential" during pandemics. I would think between the two, alcohol is far more harmful, and it isn't even close.