When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
perhaps you are just reading into the situation just a little too much.Originally posted by sedation
I was just wondering if, when you're hugging a girl and she lifts one of her legs up, does it really mean something? Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
If it does mean something, what exactly does it mean?
Perhaps I am... I still wanna know whether it does, or at least could, mean something. Whether she meant anything by it or not.Originally posted by wavejams007
perhaps you are just reading into the situation just a little too much.
Greeaat... real helpful in helpin' me decode this myth. Thanks. :crackup:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Who said I was worried about it?Originally posted by Reagan
Here's what you can do instead of worring about useless crap. Jerk off. Very helpful.
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?Originally posted by sedation
I was just wondering if, when you're hugging a girl and she lifts one of her legs up, does it really mean something? Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
If it does mean something, what exactly does it mean?
Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?
Seriously, that's just a dumb question man, it's like an AFC who learns to sit up straight.
Some Dumb Blonde(SDB): I was talking to my guy friend and he was sitting up straight and he looked very relaxed, was he trying to tell me something?
Yeah... uh... you could'a just said it actually is some bull I heard somewhere. Damn... you people suck at answering a simple question. 'Bet you think you're cool **** answerin' my question with some bull like that, huh?Originally posted by sedation Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
Ok... sure... what would Sally say about it?Originally posted by wavejams007
Sedation, ask Reagan what Sally would say about it.:crackup:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, Sally would say, she is the only girl for you. She'll please you in anyway you want. She doesn't judge you. She doesn't ***** and complain, and she doesn't PMS!!!!!Ok... sure... what would Sally say about it?
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?
Seriously, that's just a dumb question man, it's like an AFC who learns to sit up straight.
Some Dumb Blonde(SDB): I was talking to my guy friend and he was sitting up straight and he looked very relaxed, was he trying to tell me something?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Get your a$$ in the high school forum.Originally posted by cffrmw
sorry about all these *******s dude, they seem to forget that they were once new to this whole thing too (and in most cases still are). Basically, it's common sense to figure it out though - if she lifts her leg when she hugs other people, it means nothing. If she only lifts her leg when she hugs you, it means something, but no way to tell what. If I were you I would just make a move b/c then you'll know. Anyways, I g2g cuz I'm meeting a girl at starbucks like, now...