"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Leg Lift
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
perhaps you are just reading into the situation just a little too much.Originally posted by sedation
I was just wondering if, when you're hugging a girl and she lifts one of her legs up, does it really mean something? Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
If it does mean something, what exactly does it mean?
Perhaps I am... I still wanna know whether it does, or at least could, mean something. Whether she meant anything by it or not.Originally posted by wavejams007
perhaps you are just reading into the situation just a little too much.
Greeaat... real helpful in helpin' me decode this myth. Thanks. :crackup:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Who said I was worried about it?Originally posted by Reagan
Here's what you can do instead of worring about useless crap. Jerk off. Very helpful.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?Originally posted by sedation
I was just wondering if, when you're hugging a girl and she lifts one of her legs up, does it really mean something? Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
If it does mean something, what exactly does it mean?
Seriously, that's just a dumb question man, it's like an AFC who learns to sit up straight.
Some Dumb Blonde(SDB): I was talking to my guy friend and he was sitting up straight and he looked very relaxed, was he trying to tell me something?
Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?
Seriously, that's just a dumb question man, it's like an AFC who learns to sit up straight.
Some Dumb Blonde(SDB): I was talking to my guy friend and he was sitting up straight and he looked very relaxed, was he trying to tell me something?
Yeah... uh... you could'a just said it actually is some bull I heard somewhere. Damn... you people suck at answering a simple question. 'Bet you think you're cool **** answerin' my question with some bull like that, huh?Originally posted by sedation Or is that just some bull I heard somewhere?
Ok... sure... what would Sally say about it?Originally posted by wavejams007
Sedation, ask Reagan what Sally would say about it.:crackup:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, Sally would say, she is the only girl for you. She'll please you in anyway you want. She doesn't judge you. She doesn't ***** and complain, and she doesn't PMS!!!!!Ok... sure... what would Sally say about it?
lets_do_this
Don Juan
Damn..
LOL. This is funny. I can't help it.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
God I love stupid people.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
I was wondering what it means when I am sitting down and a girl hops onto my knee and starts rubbing her crotch on me... is she trying to be alpha and leave her scent?
Seriously, that's just a dumb question man, it's like an AFC who learns to sit up straight.
Some Dumb Blonde(SDB): I was talking to my guy friend and he was sitting up straight and he looked very relaxed, was he trying to tell me something?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Get your a$$ in the high school forum.Originally posted by cffrmw
sorry about all these *******s dude, they seem to forget that they were once new to this whole thing too (and in most cases still are). Basically, it's common sense to figure it out though - if she lifts her leg when she hugs other people, it means nothing. If she only lifts her leg when she hugs you, it means something, but no way to tell what. If I were you I would just make a move b/c then you'll know. Anyways, I g2g cuz I'm meeting a girl at starbucks like, now...