"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Law of Attraction
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
And for those who think its hocus pocus, the psychology of it all is pretty much flawless.WhitePimp said:
The Law of Attraction is nothing new, it's just a repackaging of "I think therefore I am."
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
EX.When you type on a computer as soon as you hit the keys there is no division in between your finger and keys. Its all one with the other. (Not trying to sound hippish...)
But just don't chase things directly. And you'll be good.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
One of the drawbacks of the human brain is that because it sacrifices accuracy for speed, humans generally make a lot of cause/effect linkages that have no logical connection.
Fooled by Randomness is a good primer on the subject.
Yes it works. I believe in it 100%. Look at sport as an example. Some sports players are not as good as others but they always seem to win. They are called lucky etc but nobody mentions their winning mentality. They visualise themselves winning and that makes them more determined.ChrizZ said:
I used LOA to attract a certain type of woman into my life and my girlfriend is everything I was looking for. I'm now concentrating on other things too.
I recomment reading Michael Losier's law of attraction book. Feel free to send me a PM if anybody wants to know more.
user43770
Guest
Examples, please.slaog said:
The examples are there for everybody to see. Take any sport and see who the top sports people are in that. They are at the top not by chance. All those people believed they could get to the top. They visualised themselves at the top, winning things.TyTe`EyEz said:
Why is one person more determined then another? It's because that person strongly wants to achieve a dream.
They are at the top for a number of reasons. For athletes at the level is partly genes, partly your environment and how you were raised, partly your coach, party your ambition. It's not just pure ambition. I could give it 110% and tha doesn't mean I'm going to be a top athlete. I just don't have the genetics for it.slaog said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
speakeasy said:
I'm not saying if you visualise yourself flying you will fly. Common sense is needed too.
It's what seperates the top athletes from others. You always hear about wasted talent etc etc. So ask yourself why do some people waste talent and their lives in general and others to well and achieve success.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Because the Law of Attraction is diametrically opposed, and inversely proportional to the Law of the Jinx. Thus they cancel one another out.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
An interesting article. The secret is a good introductio to the LOA but that is all. I think some people take things too literally and it's dangerous to be talking about curing cancer.speakeasy said:
As I said, I'd recommend Michael Losier's book. The main difference between his book and the secret is that he says you cannot just wish for something and expect it to come along. You have to work on it every day. He also explains things more clearly then 'the secret'. He also ecplains that it's feelings that attract things to you. You cannot just say you want to have a girlfriend you need to feel like she is already there.
It's much easier to understand the science behind the secret if you see everything as energy. We are all energy. Everything physical is pure energy but it jusy appears physical to out senses. Atoms are just balls of energy and they are more then 99.99% empty. In quantum physics its proven that the mind can effect matter.
I understand when people say it's obvious that a positive mindset will make you do positive things and thats just because it's working on the inside. If you look beyond the "physical world" that we live in you will notice that it doesn't matter how the results are achieved the important thing is they are.
On this site everybody will agree that when you develop your inner game rules do not matter as much as before. You make your own rules and still the women come to you. This is because of the energy you radiate. Everybody has an energy and you'll attract to you people with similar energy. The guys with weak inner game (or low DJ energy) always manage to fvck up somehow. Thats why they get frustrated and say things like "I don't know why I said that" or "I fvcked up again" etc etc.
user43770
Guest
No probTyTe`EyEz said:
It would be a boring world if everybody had the same beliefs.
I'm certain about the law of attraction because I have looked at it for a few years and looked at my own life. I also look at people.I know a fella who started gambling a few years ago. He's not the brightest and he is thousands of Euro in dept now. The interesting thing about he is that when he first started gambling he started to win and kept winning for months. He was winning 10's of thousands of Euro. He bought a new car and everything. Another gambler I know said he couldn't understand how the guy was winning so much because he hadn't a clue of horses but everything thing he picked out was winning. The other guy said that he's end up losing everything because he was betting on everything he could.
Eventually after many months the winning run came to an end. He started to lose and now 2 or 3 years later is probably around 100,000e in debt. His luck ran out. Or was it luck. My belief is that when he first started gambling he believed and expected to win. He wasn't smart enough to know about odds etc so he attracted that winning run to his life.
By the way the winning run lasted months and involved 100's of bets. I always wondered why he was so lucky for those few months. Some people will call it a coincedence. If they want to believe in that and luck thats ok with me.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I don't want to belabor the point, since I thoroughly explained it here and here with academic citations, but there was no science in The Secret. Quantum physics does not support mind over matter, actually. While it's true the act of measuring something inherently can influence the properties of said measured thing, the mind plays no part. As Columbia University quantum physicist David Albert explains, the early 20th century saw a crisis in physics with the development of quantum physics, but the latter half of the century witnessed a resolution to the crisis and science is progressing back to clockwork mechanism.
Well, hot and cold streaks are perfectly explained by random probability, regardless of someone's education and cognitive awareness of probability statistics. Every poker player knows some nights are full of hot hands and other nights are complete crap, regardless of one's beliefs. Ask "Jesus" Chris Ferguson, one of the top poker players in the world and who holds a PhD in mathematics, and he will laugh at any suggestion the winnings and losses at gambling -- of any sort -- are predicated upon belief except in the very limited context of persistence and risk aversion. Gambling in particular is designed so the house always wins, disparaging even the most confident and believing players, sooner or later, to lose everything. Over the past few decades horse racing has been evolving to be more probability-based than horse-based, thanks to improvements of training which marginalize the differences between horses, but nonetheless streaks are still explained by probability theory.
There is also the possibility of cheating.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.