"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Ladies Are Swooning Over Him!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dustmuffin
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I can't remember his name but I met him at a party once. Nice guy. All the women were just ga ga for him my ex wife included. It was a gathering of romance writers. Mostly over weight middle aged women. I parked myself at the bar and chatted with the other husbands.
mrgoodstuff
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Was this the ladies who swooned over Fabio? Now I noticed that horse was black, lol. But anyways, the target market for these Fabios and Super fine guys is usually going to be a heavier woman who is a harder worker, she's going to reach into her pockets for him, and be able to take care of herself fine.
dustmuffin
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Yes they loved Fabio. The romance writers group would have an event every few months and bring in some guy that was on the cover of the romance books. Most of these romance writer women were well off with rich husbands. Most were fat and middle aged. They would be as giddy as a school girl chatting with these guests. It was sickening really. I liked going to the parties because they had great food and an open bar. My ex wife read romance novels constantly.
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My friend kind of looks like Fabio/California surfer type guy. He can only seem to pull average to slightly above average looking chicks. He doesn't have any trouble getting laid, but he definitely has a ceiling lol.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Desdinova
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Believe it or not, there are women out there who would set this horse free to go search for this:
taiyuu_otoko
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You want to watch an alleged environmentalist head explode? Get them talking about animals and how some animals near extinction. Bonus points if you can get them to admit that private property should be seized by the government to help these poor creatures so they don't become extinct.
Then carefully explain how there's a hunting area in Texas, where they specifically raise endangered species so people can hunt and eat them. And because the private property owner is economically incentivized to MAKE MORE of the "endangered" species, just so people pay money to kill them, there are MORE ON EARTH than there otherwise would be, thereby saving them from their endangered status.
If you get them to really, really commit that they REALLY CARE about these animals going extinct, watch them try denounce this proven solution to the problem they just defined they'd do anything to solve.
Wildlife Hunting: Friends of Animals Threaten Endangered Species in Texas
mrgoodstuff
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Super "fine" babes usually don't use super "fine" guys. It makes her look less "fine" in relative status. They would get a status guy who doesn't get that face attention, all while NEGGING the super fine guy. Super fine guy does better with heavier babes and more average ones who are going to put out stronger sex.