Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Was this the ladies who swooned over Fabio? Now I noticed that horse was black, lol. But anyways, the target market for these Fabios and Super fine guys is usually going to be a heavier woman who is a harder worker, she's going to reach into her pockets for him, and be able to take care of herself fine.I can't remember his name but I met him at a party once. Nice guy. All the women were just ga ga for him my ex wife included. It was a gathering of romance writers. Mostly over weight middle aged women. I parked myself at the bar and chatted with the other husbands.
Yes they loved Fabio. The romance writers group would have an event every few months and bring in some guy that was on the cover of the romance books. Most of these romance writer women were well off with rich husbands. Most were fat and middle aged. They would be as giddy as a school girl chatting with these guests. It was sickening really. I liked going to the parties because they had great food and an open bar. My ex wife read romance novels constantly.Was this the ladies who swooned over Fabio? Now I noticed that horse was black, lol. But anyways, the target market for these Fabios and Super fine guys is usually going to be a heavier woman who is a harder worker, she's going to reach into her pockets for him, and be able to take care of herself fine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Believe it or not, there are women out there who would set this horse free to go search for this:
You want to watch an alleged environmentalist head explode? Get them talking about animals and how some animals near extinction. Bonus points if you can get them to admit that private property should be seized by the government to help these poor creatures so they don't become extinct.Believe it or not, there are women out there who would set this horse free to go search for this:
Super "fine" babes usually don't use super "fine" guys. It makes her look less "fine" in relative status. They would get a status guy who doesn't get that face attention, all while NEGGING the super fine guy. Super fine guy does better with heavier babes and more average ones who are going to put out stronger sex.My friend kind of looks like Fabio/California surfer type guy. He can only seem to pull average to slightly above average looking chicks. He doesn't have any trouble getting laid, but he definitely has a ceiling lol.