"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Kiss on the Hand

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This trick is widely used in Europe and other parts of the world. Not many people do it in America. Its called the kiss on the hand.

When you first meet a girl and you shake her hand. You just move up your hand with hers and kiss it gently on the top. This automatically takes you out of the friend zone and it drives girls crazy when you do this to show that your a gentleman.

You might think this is what "AFC's" do. I just dont care what you think. It works. This makes you more charming as well, and chicks dig charming guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kiss her shoes while you're at it. hand kissing was charming and gentelmanly during the 19th century, now its just corny and you come off as a creep.
 
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ha that gave me a good laugh.

I'd say hand kiss a girl who you already know a bit, or it would be a little wierd.
 
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Originally posted by Levex
kiss her shoes while you're at it. hand kissing was charming and gentelmanly during the 19th century, now its just corny and you come off as a creep.
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If you're naturally a quirky or eccentric person you can get away with it. If you pull a hand-kiss and then act dull and common, it will seem incongruent with your persona and VERY creepy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An exception:

While making out, light kissing on the inside of her wrists is a gigantic turn-on for her.

This has never failed to get a strong, positive reaction from any woman I've done it to.

Try it. She'll love it.
 
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indeed, though prior to doing so you should wipe you monocle. If she replies with a curtsey than your golden.

I have a friend who tries this all the time and the best response that he has gotten was girls looking at him like he just killed a kitten.
 
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Originally posted by Levex
kiss her shoes while you're at it. hand kissing was charming and gentelmanly during the 19th century, now its just corny and you come off as a creep.
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You're a fool. Every girl I've did this to went crazy over me. They still are even though we aren't in a relationship. =/

Keep macking playas.
 
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I'm talking about HB 9's and 10's. So no. :/
 
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I need to try this. Chicks figure out quickly that i'm an old fashioned guy, even though i haven't turned 21 yet. Most of the girls i get along with tend to like the whole "chivalry" thing

Just go with what works for you, it might not be the thing that works for everyone else.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
As you will learn here...

There is no such thing as a HB10. ;)
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I'm too lazy to give the EXACT scale, so I round it to a ten. If you insist 9-9.99999, etc. :D
 
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