"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amazing. I come back to http://www.sosuave.com to check up on things after a long while, and lo and behold, I'm on the front page. Where's my royalty check?:D

Anyway, just giving everyone here a head's up and to expect more tips to pour in by the day. I just updated in the Tips section with a new pointer, so everyone should check that out.

So, what have I missed?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Welcome back, I was thinking about sending you a PM but here it is instead

another member from 2000 is coming back but we are losing Pook but I seem to remember that his tips are very good.

Glad to have you back. i can't wait to see your tips that you make for us.
 
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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
I heard a while back that you got angry over something and deleted all your tips, are you planning on bringing them back?
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It was simply a fledgling copyright issue. I plan on writing a book someday. Only because I know most everything there is to know.
 
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Hey red!

It's been a while, I'm glad another old timer is back. I don't think there are any other 2000 ppl around except Allen.

Check your PMs
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm a 2000 person who just started posting again recently after about a 3 year absence to "experience life".

I've come back with alot more experience and a greater perspective on life.
 
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Re: Welcome back, I was thinking about sending you a PM but here it is instead

Originally posted by baseballDJ
another member from 2000 is coming back but we are losing Pook but I seem to remember that his tips are very good.

Glad to have you back. i can't wait to see your tips that you make for us.
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loosing pook- no this is bad!



havent heard of ya work too much Red-xl, but from all this recent talk- sounds like you are just as good as pook.

looking 4 ya to make some good posts again
 
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Pook and I come from different schools of though.

While I agree with him on the aspect of mindset, my focus is more on the actual application. I'm more about technique and methodology.

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." Whereas Pook is the herder, I'm the quencher.
 
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ERIC is also a man from 2000 who is still around. Although he didn't post much he is still around.

EDIT: oh yeah survivor is still around
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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