"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Amazing. I come back to http://www.sosuave.com to check up on things after a long while, and lo and behold, I'm on the front page. Where's my royalty check?:D

Anyway, just giving everyone here a head's up and to expect more tips to pour in by the day. I just updated in the Tips section with a new pointer, so everyone should check that out.

So, what have I missed?

~Rx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Welcome back, I was thinking about sending you a PM but here it is instead

another member from 2000 is coming back but we are losing Pook but I seem to remember that his tips are very good.

Glad to have you back. i can't wait to see your tips that you make for us.
 

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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
I heard a while back that you got angry over something and deleted all your tips, are you planning on bringing them back?
It was simply a fledgling copyright issue. I plan on writing a book someday. Only because I know most everything there is to know.
 

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Hey red!

It's been a while, I'm glad another old timer is back. I don't think there are any other 2000 ppl around except Allen.

Check your PMs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a 2000 person who just started posting again recently after about a 3 year absence to "experience life".

I've come back with alot more experience and a greater perspective on life.
 

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Re: Welcome back, I was thinking about sending you a PM but here it is instead

Originally posted by baseballDJ
another member from 2000 is coming back but we are losing Pook but I seem to remember that his tips are very good.

Glad to have you back. i can't wait to see your tips that you make for us.
loosing pook- no this is bad!



havent heard of ya work too much Red-xl, but from all this recent talk- sounds like you are just as good as pook.

looking 4 ya to make some good posts again
 

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Pook and I come from different schools of though.

While I agree with him on the aspect of mindset, my focus is more on the actual application. I'm more about technique and methodology.

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink." Whereas Pook is the herder, I'm the quencher.
 

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ERIC is also a man from 2000 who is still around. Although he didn't post much he is still around.

EDIT: oh yeah survivor is still around
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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