"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The kid needs to be schooled! How accurate is my theory??

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This is a girl I talk to.. Not one that I am interested in, but just a close friend.

Me: WHY oh WHY do girls get jealous of girls when they get just a litttttttttttttle eeny teeeeNy ounce more attention at any particular moment
Her: idk they hate it
Me: I dont even think it matters who there getting attention from or what kind of attention
Her: lol
Her: true
Her: but girls hate when they like a guy and the guy dont know it and hes giving some other girl his attention
Me: you girls do hate that ****, but i swear at the same time you love it.
Her: i dont
Me: cuz the other day I was teasing this girl I was interested in right
Her: yea
Me: I didnt know she was with her friends shopping for shoes they must have went off some where...... oh god
Her: lol
Me: this girl overhears me talking to her, and jumps in like "u dont know ish, blah blah,we know you da man blah blah, dont worry girl you look fly no matter what you wear blah blah, dude keep your mouth closed if you dont have anything important to say"
Her: she grabbed her arm and actually dragged her out of the store, while the girl kept looking back at me, I can tell she didnt want to leave
Me: Im thinking what the hell was that,
Her: lol
Me: can you explain to me what that was about so im not lost.
Her: idk bub im lost
Me: damn
Me: I think you girls just try to be "DEFENSIVE" of your girls, because you would be jealous if they actually found somebody they liked
Her: lol
Me: ok most girls anyway
Her: yea
Her: better
Me: not the lesbians... they can all get along no problem.
Her: but im bi not lesbian <--- what the hell??? can someone explain this too, while there at it.. she thought I was talking about her?? - Georgio
Me: you know.... I just thought of something
Her: what
Me: maybe she wasnt looking back at me, maybe she was looking back at the shoes she wanted.....
Her: LMFAO
Me: Anyway moving on.. im going to NY this friday!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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great tip...sheriff get this outter here...
 

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wanna cut me some slack

heres a tip.....

take the time, read my post.. If you have an opinion, write it down.. If not, get a life, and read something else....

or we could all try to learn from eachother, (what was this forum designed for?)
 

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no i say that because this is the tip section, but this is not a tip, im not sure what it is, probably for the discusion forum.
 

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This post doesn't say anything at all, I don't even know what your question is. I do know many women dislike being told what women like. I never venture there any longer, it's their emotional response that is important not their understanding of the response.

All women will be different so these conversations is pretty useless. Especially if they are based upon a cliché. Your views will seem very shocking for most girls, like we will be shocked when girls tell how we work when getting attracted, which they seldom do. Many of the things that turns us on are degrading if you put them into words.

I'm all with cmkuk, this belong in discussion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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