"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The kid needs to be schooled! How accurate is my theory??

Georgio

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This is a girl I talk to.. Not one that I am interested in, but just a close friend.

Me: WHY oh WHY do girls get jealous of girls when they get just a litttttttttttttle eeny teeeeNy ounce more attention at any particular moment
Her: idk they hate it
Me: I dont even think it matters who there getting attention from or what kind of attention
Her: lol
Her: true
Her: but girls hate when they like a guy and the guy dont know it and hes giving some other girl his attention
Me: you girls do hate that ****, but i swear at the same time you love it.
Her: i dont
Me: cuz the other day I was teasing this girl I was interested in right
Her: yea
Me: I didnt know she was with her friends shopping for shoes they must have went off some where...... oh god
Her: lol
Me: this girl overhears me talking to her, and jumps in like "u dont know ish, blah blah,we know you da man blah blah, dont worry girl you look fly no matter what you wear blah blah, dude keep your mouth closed if you dont have anything important to say"
Her: she grabbed her arm and actually dragged her out of the store, while the girl kept looking back at me, I can tell she didnt want to leave
Me: Im thinking what the hell was that,
Her: lol
Me: can you explain to me what that was about so im not lost.
Her: idk bub im lost
Me: damn
Me: I think you girls just try to be "DEFENSIVE" of your girls, because you would be jealous if they actually found somebody they liked
Her: lol
Me: ok most girls anyway
Her: yea
Her: better
Me: not the lesbians... they can all get along no problem.
Her: but im bi not lesbian <--- what the hell??? can someone explain this too, while there at it.. she thought I was talking about her?? - Georgio
Me: you know.... I just thought of something
Her: what
Me: maybe she wasnt looking back at me, maybe she was looking back at the shoes she wanted.....
Her: LMFAO
Me: Anyway moving on.. im going to NY this friday!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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great tip...sheriff get this outter here...
 

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wanna cut me some slack

heres a tip.....

take the time, read my post.. If you have an opinion, write it down.. If not, get a life, and read something else....

or we could all try to learn from eachother, (what was this forum designed for?)
 

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no i say that because this is the tip section, but this is not a tip, im not sure what it is, probably for the discusion forum.
 

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This post doesn't say anything at all, I don't even know what your question is. I do know many women dislike being told what women like. I never venture there any longer, it's their emotional response that is important not their understanding of the response.

All women will be different so these conversations is pretty useless. Especially if they are based upon a cliché. Your views will seem very shocking for most girls, like we will be shocked when girls tell how we work when getting attracted, which they seldom do. Many of the things that turns us on are degrading if you put them into words.

I'm all with cmkuk, this belong in discussion.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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