"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The kid needs to be schooled! How accurate is my theory??

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This is a girl I talk to.. Not one that I am interested in, but just a close friend.

Me: WHY oh WHY do girls get jealous of girls when they get just a litttttttttttttle eeny teeeeNy ounce more attention at any particular moment
Her: idk they hate it
Me: I dont even think it matters who there getting attention from or what kind of attention
Her: lol
Her: true
Her: but girls hate when they like a guy and the guy dont know it and hes giving some other girl his attention
Me: you girls do hate that ****, but i swear at the same time you love it.
Her: i dont
Me: cuz the other day I was teasing this girl I was interested in right
Her: yea
Me: I didnt know she was with her friends shopping for shoes they must have went off some where...... oh god
Her: lol
Me: this girl overhears me talking to her, and jumps in like "u dont know ish, blah blah,we know you da man blah blah, dont worry girl you look fly no matter what you wear blah blah, dude keep your mouth closed if you dont have anything important to say"
Her: she grabbed her arm and actually dragged her out of the store, while the girl kept looking back at me, I can tell she didnt want to leave
Me: Im thinking what the hell was that,
Her: lol
Me: can you explain to me what that was about so im not lost.
Her: idk bub im lost
Me: damn
Me: I think you girls just try to be "DEFENSIVE" of your girls, because you would be jealous if they actually found somebody they liked
Her: lol
Me: ok most girls anyway
Her: yea
Her: better
Me: not the lesbians... they can all get along no problem.
Her: but im bi not lesbian <--- what the hell??? can someone explain this too, while there at it.. she thought I was talking about her?? - Georgio
Me: you know.... I just thought of something
Her: what
Me: maybe she wasnt looking back at me, maybe she was looking back at the shoes she wanted.....
Her: LMFAO
Me: Anyway moving on.. im going to NY this friday!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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great tip...sheriff get this outter here...
 

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wanna cut me some slack

heres a tip.....

take the time, read my post.. If you have an opinion, write it down.. If not, get a life, and read something else....

or we could all try to learn from eachother, (what was this forum designed for?)
 

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no i say that because this is the tip section, but this is not a tip, im not sure what it is, probably for the discusion forum.
 

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This post doesn't say anything at all, I don't even know what your question is. I do know many women dislike being told what women like. I never venture there any longer, it's their emotional response that is important not their understanding of the response.

All women will be different so these conversations is pretty useless. Especially if they are based upon a cliché. Your views will seem very shocking for most girls, like we will be shocked when girls tell how we work when getting attracted, which they seldom do. Many of the things that turns us on are degrading if you put them into words.

I'm all with cmkuk, this belong in discussion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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