"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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...A broken heart.

Ran into a girl I hadn't seen in a month tonight and she noticed I had lost a ton of weight in my midsection. I had put some weight on this winter and was at 240 in February, and I hit 200 this week.

It honestly seems as though being satisfied in a relationship adds belly fat, and being inspired by a breakup burns fat - even if you don't change your routine.

Has anyone else noticed the correlation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Actually, yes.
 

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I'm dissapointed in you bigneil. You sat there and tricked your money off on a stripper and then you claim you have a brokenheart. Wheres the confident bigneil that was here a couple months ago. Seems like you relied on girls for confidence when it really should come from inside.

Well if you have a "broken heart (depressed)" you won't consume as much food and it will definitely show. Best of luck to you playa. Get back on your feet.
 

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It happens. Just use that fuel to get in better shape.
 

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Beats having to diet.

Being in love can cause weight loss also. Some people eat when they're depressed, so they gain weight.
Pining over a woman though, that seems like a weight loss situation.

I wonder what the actual physical explanation for this is.
It must have something to do with hormones and/or neurotransmitters.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigneil said:
...A broken heart.

Ran into a girl I hadn't seen in a month tonight and she noticed I had lost a ton of weight in my midsection. I had put some weight on this winter and was at 240 in February, and I hit 200 this week.

It honestly seems as though being satisfied in a relationship adds belly fat, and being inspired by a breakup burns fat - even if you don't change your routine.

Has anyone else noticed the correlation?
You don't have a broken heart, you have a narcissistic injury.

But yes, you lose weight, beccause of the simple fact a lot of guys are less interested in food when they're depressed. Could also be that you're more anxious and thus use more energy. How tall are you? Because 240 is pretty damn huge.
 

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I find that when I have no woman and I feel like a rabid dog chasing pvssy its much more easier to work out hard and ignore pain and tireness.

Probably related to serotonine level in our brain, the opposite is true with food, I tend to be attracted more from junk food outside the pleasure of a womans leg.
 

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First, I was using poetic license for the "broken heart" as it went with "ripped abs". I meant single (and depressed).

Did you ever date a girl and not know how much she liked you until she didn't like you anymore?

@AlexDP I am 6'5" so 240 isn't that big.
 
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I don't think we can have it both ways. You either get the girl you like best (and have oneitis) or you settle for a girl who you don't love.
 
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I've noticed a tendency for women to get fatter when they have a man, they let themselves go pretty quickly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For me it's the dinners. Usually I skip dinner and do all my eating early. But when I have a woman I share at least a couple dinners a week with her just to have something to do and that's all it takes. Then there's more drinking, I also party alot more when I have a woman around. Sex usually leads to a little nap, so yeah total weight gain material there. I was in a 7 year LTR and got up to 230 now i'm down to 200 and I look totally different.
 

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Someone should develop some kind of ratio on a chart to show the fact that I firmly believe:

The fatter a woman gets with age the more physically unnattractive a guy it is she lets in her life.

For example in the case of a 5'2 to 5'4 girl
Girl weighs 115 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 10
Girl weighs 120 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 9
Girl weighs 125 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is an 8
Girl weighs 130 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 7
Girl weighs 135 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 6

In other words as a girl gains weight her standards lower. That is really deppressing.
 

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AlexDP said:
You don't have a broken heart, you have a narcissistic injury.

But yes, you lose weight, beccause of the simple fact a lot of guys are less interested in food when they're depressed. Could also be that you're more anxious and thus use more energy. How tall are you? Because 240 is pretty damn huge.
i used to be at 220, but now I'm at 180 and falling!

it is true what you say though a break - up dose start something.. after the pain period of it.
 

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Young Stallion said:
Someone should develop some kind of ratio on a chart to show the fact that I firmly believe:

The fatter a woman gets with age the more physically unnattractive a guy it is she lets in her life.

For example in the case of a 5'2 to 5'4 girl
Girl weighs 115 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 10
Girl weighs 120 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 9
Girl weighs 125 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is an 8
Girl weighs 130 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 7
Girl weighs 135 pounds she wont go for anything less than a guy who is a 6

In other words as a girl gains weight her standards lower. That is really deppressing.
Women are the only things that the heavyer it gets, the easier is to pick it up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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