The K-man lept and...

[KarmaSutra]

...took the plunge.

I'm engaged.

Great girl. The best girl I've ever known (and I've known quite a few). I asked her to marry me with a Taco Bell hot sauce packet:

Too cool for school.

Went and bought her the ring 20 minutes later. I know for sure I wouldn't have the mental acumen to have found such an amazing woman had it not been for SoSuave.

We're going to enjoy our engagement and not rush a wedding. It'll happen when it's right for us both.

I'll keep you all updated.

 

[DJDamage]

Wait what ever happened to that guy?!

I will never be married again. I know this because it's something I've already reconciled and dealt with. I've weighed the pro's and con's and it's not even close to being balanced. The demand for us Mature Men is so great we have the power to appreciate and exercise all of those options without recourse from women who want to accomplish their own Disney-esque agenda.

 

[KarmaSutra]

That guy grew the fvck up.

 

[search1ng]

Haha! Congrats KarmaSutra!

Show her what being married to a MAN is like!

 

[Boilermaker]

Wait what ever happened to that guy?!

Haha that's hilarious DJDamage, how the hell did you pull that up so quickly?

zuhaha :crackup:

Congrats Big Man !

 

[DJDamage]

That guy grew the fvck up.

Well how did he grow up?!

The old Karma seemed like a grown up to me.

Congrats man.

 

[Jitterbug]

One minute silence for the Fallen Komrade.

Tell us more.

Congrats!

 

[Pair A Dice]

Congrats!

 

[L B]

Congrats.

 

[Desdinova]

I certainly wouldn't do it again. Hope she's a dog on a leash

Good luck!

 

[romangod]

Congratulations, Karma.



Cheers!

 

[zekko]

Where is the real Karma and what have you done with him?

 

[KarmaSutra]

I'm the same bastard today I was 2 days ago.

Putting a ring on her finger hasn't changed who either of us are. It's merely served to announce our mutual exclusivity to each other. I made it a point to try and find something which would assure me that she's lumped in with the rest.

That day hasn't come. Nothing but complete respect for me as a positive masculine figure, as her lover, as her confidante, and as her long-term mate has manifest.

It dawned on me that if anything was going to fvck this up it would be my childish critique of her machinations; my pin-pricking her every action is what screws up relationships. She knows what my goals and aspirations are, I know, and absolutely appreciate, her own. We respect each others' space and boundaries.

Without words.

The best thing I can hope is that every one of you fella's find your own El Dorado, as we've been able to.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I certainly wouldn't do it again. Hope she's a dog on a leash

Good luck!

D, she hasn't once 5hit on the carpet.

 

[cordoncordon]

...took the plunge.

I'm engaged.

Great girl. The best girl I've ever known (and I've known quite a few). I asked her to marry me with a Taco Bell hot sauce packet:

Too cool for school.

Went and bought her the ring 20 minutes later. I know for sure I wouldn't have the mental acumen to have found such an amazing woman had it not been for SoSuave.

We're going to enjoy our engagement and not rush a wedding. It'll happen when it's right for us both.

I'll keep you all updated.

Congrats! That is great news!

 

[KarmaSutra]

Well how did he grow up?!

The old Karma seemed like a grown up to me.

Congrats man.

Brother Damage, this is a valid perspective. I made it a point to view commitment to a single woman as detriment to a "man's" character.

What I've come to realize is most of us men are Indiana Jones searching for the elusive Holy Grail; a good woman with her head on right.

I'm extremely fortunate to have helped cultivate a true partnership with a woman who, not only compliments my masculinity, she makes me a better man. I'm more aware of people's perceptions in a given situation (I used to care only what my two peepers witnessed). I have a deeper spiritual connection with her than ANY woman I've ever known.

Will it last forever and a day? Who knows. I know things run their course. If the day comes that we've exhausted our give-a-damn for each other, we'll pursue other avenues of growth with other people.

The best compliment I can say about my soon-to-be is she has no want to change me or fit me into a pre-formed mold.

 

[women haze]

Congrats man I am happy for you

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Congrats man, how long have you both been dating?

 

[DJDamage]

I'm extremely fortunate to have helped cultivate a true partnership with a woman who, not only compliments my masculinity, she makes me a better man. I'm more aware of people's perceptions in a given situation (I used to care only what my two peepers witnessed). I have a deeper spiritual connection with her than ANY woman I've ever known.

Will it last forever and a day? Who knows. I know things run their course. If the day comes that we've exhausted our give-a-damn for each other, we'll pursue other avenues of growth with other people.

The best compliment I can say about my soon-to-be is she has no want to change me or fit me into a pre-formed mold.

That's good to hear Karma, however from a personal interest I am curious to know about what was the trigger or tipping point that made you sit down with your thoughts and really think about taking the plunge for the second time in your life:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO2PEfO8wmU&feature=related

Was she prodding or hinting to you that she wants to get married or else there would be a good chance that she would walk away?

 

[vatoloco]

I asked her to marry me with a Taco Bell hot sauce packet:

Too cool for school.

I myself will try to avoid marriage as long as I can (and if I have to [taxes, benefits, etc.], I will make sure to have a extremely tight pre-nup) but I wish you luck.

She seems to at least have a great sense of humor!