The importance of positive mindset/confidence for anything you do

[bigdave17]

The human body is a machine fueled by the brain. When you doubt yourself/fear something, you're automatically giving out a very mediocre output

100% confidence/positive attitude (meaning you expect the best) is the key to giving optimal output. Practice this when you go to the gym today. Give it your absolute best effort and you'll be lifting heavier weights than you've ever lifted in your life

Positive attitude fuels optimal effort. Negative/scared attitude fuels a very halfassed effort. That's why people say life is a self fulfilling prophecy. When you expect bad things to happen, you give a mediocre effort and bad things happen

Pro athletes - the reason they become pros is because they come in everyday, train for hours while giving their absolute best effort

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Unless you're a narcissist, in which case you're delusional and need to come back down to earth to solve your problems

Many extremely successful people have ego issues and are narcissistic in varying degrees.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Is the solution to their problems to act more narcissistic?

Probably a bit less. Bigdave17 was pointing out mindset is huge, which it is.

On his one thread of the impossibility of dating I pointed out his current problem is not that hard. He truly does need to start fvcking what's presenting itself to him for that. It will get him into his desired male and sexual point of view which will be more attractive to ALL WOMEN.

Even the bastard AMS pijnts out that pvzzy droughts can be so bad you almost can't even pay to get it. That there are moneyd and attractive males that aren't getting it. That's why it's important to have a source of reliable pvzzy.

 

[IKO69]

Probably a bit less. Bigdave17 was pointing out mindset is huge, which it is.

On his one thread of the impossibility of dating I pointed out his current problem is not that hard. He truly does need to start fvcking what's presenting itself to him for that. It will get him into his desired male and sexual point of view which will be more attractive to ALL WOMEN.

Even the bastard AMS pijnts out that pvzzy droughts can be so bad you almost can't even pay to get it. That there are moneyd and attractive males that aren't getting it. That's why it's important to have a source of reliable pvzzy.

I discovered AMS recently because someone posted about him here. I saw a couple of his videos. I usually detest "gurus" in this field but his advice is pretty spot on if you are going to listen to someone.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I discovered AMS recently because someone posted about him here. I saw a couple of his videos. I usually detest "gurus" in this field but his advice is pretty spot on if you are going to listen to someone.

For the dating "hell" he's spot on. He's a bastard but it's real life field tested advice that works in 2018..

 

[sosousage]

confidence and body language which you usually cannot fake consistently is everything to fields like job, social, dating

 

[darksprezzatura]

Fake it till you make it works because pretending or faking behaviour to appear more confident has the consequence of actually making us mentally/internally more confident.

Cognitive dissonance.

To minimize the discomfort in having a contradictory attitude and behaviour, either the mindset would change to accommodate behaviour or the behaviour would change to accommodate the mindset.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

confidence and body language which you usually cannot fake consistently is everything to fields like job, social, dating

You'll get that thru repetition and success.