"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
the " i have a boyfriend" line
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LouieVaton Don
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
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Damn Becker, you beat me to the punch (as the saying goes) !
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Amog please open your mind - would you want your girlfriend at a club alone grinding on dudes for hours? No? Why not?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
squirrels
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1) She had decided that she WOULD cheat with you but didn't want to take responsibility for it (and thus be a slvt, which she was anyway), so she told YOU she had a man so YOU would then be responsible for "stopping." So she can justify her self image by telling herself, "I TOLD him I had a boyfriend, but he wouldn't listen, and I couldn't help myself, I was so drunk, blah blah"
We've all done it.2) She just likes getting attention from guys...She may or may not have a man, but when she goes clubbing, she likes getting freaky with guys on the dance floor because she knows she can whip out "boyfriend" and he won't try anything or get serious. So it's just a night of fun for her. Once she leaves the club, she goes back into "good girl" mode. I sometimes wonder if you could get away with taking these girls back to the bathroom or something...probably not, but being "still in the club," if she's slvtty enough...
Either way, if you had fun, don't sweat it.
Anyways, to me it's a firting thing. Girls like to tease, and this is merely one way to do it. It boils down to a person's ego. If she wants to feel desired and she's in some shotty relationship, then she can go alone to a club and get plenty of hits there.
2 weeks ago, I met a HB8 who I hit it off with , immediately she told me she had a bf, then when I would go talk with other girls she would drag me away to talk to her, then she would flirt with me, put her hands around my waist, when I tried to go in for a kiss, she would push me away
when you are drunk and horny its all fun n games, and you should just LEAVE the moment and forget about it
it wont amount to ANYTHING, so its a waste to even think about it or post a thread about it
Sorry to be so blunt bro, but I have met and kissed many women at clubs who said they had a bf, and all they are looking for is attention, a little flirting, and an occassional kissing/fooling around
but it never amounts to anything, I just keep those memories and forget the rest
SuperMan_Wuss
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Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
I'd just call her on it. If she keeps on flirting despite saying she has a boyfriend, just ask for her number as normal and see what happens. 99% chance she'll blow you out. Next!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
playasupreme
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