The hotter a woman is, the more crazy sh!t you will deal with

[Pierce Manhammer]

There are so many relatable metaphors between hunting and meeting women.

yeah two bushes in hand is better than a bird….wait whaaaa I think I got that wrong somewhere

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Or like digging for gold. Sometimes you get a good one, sometimes you get poked in the brain.

 

[The Duke]

Here are some observations I've seen in my lifetime....highly attractive women, race horses, racecars, athletes, musicians, highly successful businessmen, etc are never balanced. They do one thing really well and fail in so many other areas. They are usually narcissists. Reasoning and maintaining relationships with these types is always a struggle with someone that is more grounded. It's always about them. That is what they are accustomed to.

 

[The Duke]

@Howiestern here is the core thing you are throwing aside as OP is. Maintaing the relationship with her is not your problem. #frame
A whole huge part of this space leaps right over this.
I like to give some of you the benefit of the doubt but these clues and takes tell an experienced guy that yall havent been in the ring with many higher end looking women. I mean in the power ring. Trenches.

So it's all about the man holding frame and she magically complies? What happens when she doesn't, you end up in the trenches fighting it out and it's supposed the be worth it because she is super hot? Not sure i understand.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So it's all about the man holding frame and she magically complies? What happens when she doesn't, you end up in the trenches fighting it out and it's supposed the be worth it because she is super hot? Not sure i understand.

Shallow reasoning can only get you so far.

 

[The Duke]

Her complying is not the point here. You live your life(frame) how you want.
Having an obedient woman should be filtered at the very first 6 months months.
If you end up with a hot bytchy woman at the 2 year mark the guy messed up big time. And if shes a hot plate? Who cares when she goes off the rails just kick her to the curb until she settles down. If she doesnt who cares.

The trenches are about who cares the most. Who can walk away. Indifference.
And with the pretty ones, not letting that face and eyes manipulate you.
I would suggest keeping 1 foot in the door and 1 foot out.
Back to my original point. A guy avoiding his best option in beauty because his frame needs work is a coping mechanism. Letting a girls face phase you is a big mistake.

I am exactly that guy. I get called a dihk in my relationships because I'm rigid, can't be pushed around, and a little disengaged/selfish at times because I'm busy doing me. My frame has always been solid. I've dropped two girls on the side of the road because they refused to shut up. I left one in a restaurant because she wouldn't shut up and told her to leave for good. I left one at the lake because she got mad when she heard I went to a t!tty bar. I've always cared less about the relationship than they did. These were all HB8's that men and women notice when they walk into a room. I "kicked them all to the curb so they could settle down" exactly as you stated. And I truly didn't care if they came back or not. Still don't. I have no problem finding more, I've been with so many women it doesn't bother me if they stay or leave, eventually they all run their course. The last time I let pu$$y manipulate me was 60 girls ago.

So next you are going to tell me they didn't pass the 6month obedience test? They all did.

So now it comes down to relationship skills that I pointed out earlier. Either mine are lacking and or hers. I've been the exact guy you said one should be to eradicate these issues and it is still not enough.

Its why I said what I did about people that aren't balanced, and its why @BackInTheGame78 said what he did. It's why I date 8's instead of 9's.

 

[Barrister]

Let's be honest with ourselves, very often if you see ANY woman long enough the sh1t rises to the top whether she is a HB 6 or HB 10. All of them are entitled to an extent. I do think HB 10s are going to be more of a pain in the ass in daily dealing than a HB 6. But eventually, given the lapse of time, they both turn into a pain in the ass. And since we are using the deer hunting analogies today, I would rather watch the trophy be a pain in the ass than I would the button. So would my d!ck.

Settling leads to unhappiness.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Most sane hot girls are already taken... most hot girls who are NOT taken, are insane.

When going to clubs, bars, etc... what type of hot girls are available? Mostly insane ones... it's survivorship bias. (This is also the same for attractive males)

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I think if you're taller you will see this more often. I mean I date above my pay grade as a shorter guy all the time, but its not such a mystery why they like me.

The bowl cut never fails, does it? A rich guy with a bowl cut is like a hot girl with bangs. More people need to realize this.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

say what? lol

My bad, shouldn't be spilling secrets lol

 

[eli77]

Easier said than done

 

[eli77]

Spoken like a true veteran I guess practice makes perfect.