"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The hotel conundrum

Bokanovsky

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Stay in a 2-room suite with separate bathrooms for him and her. Problem solved.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I often wonder if Im the only one who gets miffed with the way hotels can kill the sexual vibe. You get to a nice hotel, the room is top notch, bed just the right height and firmness, linen fresh and crisp, and everything else in the room is impeccable. You have an absolute dime up in there with you for the weekend. You go to the bathroom and lo and behold, there is no toilet brush! Nothing turns me off more than seeing a woman’s poop streaks in the bog. Skiddies are an absolute mood killer for me. Why dont hotels ever provide loo brushes? Even the cheapest $1 ones (changed after each guest checks-out) could improve the hotel experience massively.
Simple solution: ask your date to bring a disposable toilet brush.
 

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I have never had a woman leave skid marks after using the bathroom...not sure how every woman you go to a hotel room with does haha
 

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I often wonder if Im the only one who gets miffed with the way hotels can kill the sexual vibe. You get to a nice hotel, the room is top notch, bed just the right height and firmness, linen fresh and crisp, and everything else in the room is impeccable. You have an absolute dime up in there with you for the weekend. You go to the bathroom and lo and behold, there is no toilet brush! Nothing turns me off more than seeing a woman’s poop streaks in the bog. Skiddies are an absolute mood killer for me. Why dont hotels ever provide loo brushes? Even the cheapest $1 ones (changed after each guest checks-out) could improve the hotel experience massively.
That's what her toothbrush is for.
 
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