"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The hot girl at work Thread

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Hey gents haven't posted in a minute or two, but i'm back now.

Got a new job and wouldnt you know it there's a hottie in the dept. next to mine.

So I didn't waste any time talking to her and getting her number pretty easily. I just asked and she gave it right out to me.

I called her and we talked for 3 minutes. I wanted to ask her out but after 3 minutes she said she had to go and she'd call me later.

I waited a week she didn't call me so I called her again left a message. She called me and I couldn't talk I said I'd call her back.

I called her back she didn't answer.

So any advice how to handle this? Things to say or whatever .. I know don't get your honey where you get your money, but I like this girl..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.
 
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KontrollerX said:
LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.

Today, she stated she tried to call me back the other day, and when she did I told her i couldn't talk i'm at work, but I would call her back.

But I called her back like 10 minutes after that fact and she didn't answer.

I didn't mention the fact I did call her back and she didnt answer. Because she already knew that ofcourse.
 

Incog

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Stop calling her.
 
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