"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The hot girl at work Thread

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Hey gents haven't posted in a minute or two, but i'm back now.

Got a new job and wouldnt you know it there's a hottie in the dept. next to mine.

So I didn't waste any time talking to her and getting her number pretty easily. I just asked and she gave it right out to me.

I called her and we talked for 3 minutes. I wanted to ask her out but after 3 minutes she said she had to go and she'd call me later.

I waited a week she didn't call me so I called her again left a message. She called me and I couldn't talk I said I'd call her back.

I called her back she didn't answer.

So any advice how to handle this? Things to say or whatever .. I know don't get your honey where you get your money, but I like this girl..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.
 
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KontrollerX said:
LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.

Today, she stated she tried to call me back the other day, and when she did I told her i couldn't talk i'm at work, but I would call her back.

But I called her back like 10 minutes after that fact and she didn't answer.

I didn't mention the fact I did call her back and she didnt answer. Because she already knew that ofcourse.
 

Incog

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Stop calling her.
 
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