Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The hot girl at work Thread

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Hey gents haven't posted in a minute or two, but i'm back now.

Got a new job and wouldnt you know it there's a hottie in the dept. next to mine.

So I didn't waste any time talking to her and getting her number pretty easily. I just asked and she gave it right out to me.

I called her and we talked for 3 minutes. I wanted to ask her out but after 3 minutes she said she had to go and she'd call me later.

I waited a week she didn't call me so I called her again left a message. She called me and I couldn't talk I said I'd call her back.

I called her back she didn't answer.

So any advice how to handle this? Things to say or whatever .. I know don't get your honey where you get your money, but I like this girl..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.
 
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KontrollerX said:
LOL, not a good move trying to pull at work but eh at least you know this.

Anyway just try and see her again at work and make some light hearted conversation and maybe joke about how you two can never seem to be able to get talking on the phone.

Where it goes from there is anyone's guess.

Today, she stated she tried to call me back the other day, and when she did I told her i couldn't talk i'm at work, but I would call her back.

But I called her back like 10 minutes after that fact and she didn't answer.

I didn't mention the fact I did call her back and she didnt answer. Because she already knew that ofcourse.
 

Incog

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Stop calling her.
 
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