"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Hole

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it's like climbing up a rope, the more you pull and fight to get to the top the more your past holds you by the ankles and pulls you down. How the hell do you get out of this. I've never been succesfull with women, and the more i try the more i think it'll never happen.

It's that feeling of self pity and regret and it's draging me down.

Yesturday i crawld on the cautch and slept from 6pm to 5am this morning....I just didn't fill like doing anything other then lay there filling pity for my self....

HOW DID YOU GET OUT?????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You have to happy with yourself before you can get anywhere with women.
 

poohead

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i'd work on yourself/your inner game and become happy w/ your life first. after that happens, start worrying about girls.
 

Good_ol_boy

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You are displaying the classic symptoms of clinical depression. Please talk to someone, therapist, school counselor or pastor.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage

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I like the title of the thread "THE HOLE" I was thinking I was about to read a story about a pvssy and I was right!! but just a different kind.

Look AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED, you need to read the DJ Bible and slowly set realistic goals and work towards them while taking babysteps until you figure out what you want in life. If I were you I would start to change my diet and slowly start excersizing in the gym to get more energy and self esteem because sleeping for 11 hours from 6pm is not healthy.

DJD
 
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