"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED

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it's like climbing up a rope, the more you pull and fight to get to the top the more your past holds you by the ankles and pulls you down. How the hell do you get out of this. I've never been succesfull with women, and the more i try the more i think it'll never happen.

It's that feeling of self pity and regret and it's draging me down.

Yesturday i crawld on the cautch and slept from 6pm to 5am this morning....I just didn't fill like doing anything other then lay there filling pity for my self....

HOW DID YOU GET OUT?????
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You have to happy with yourself before you can get anywhere with women.
 
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i'd work on yourself/your inner game and become happy w/ your life first. after that happens, start worrying about girls.
 
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You are displaying the classic symptoms of clinical depression. Please talk to someone, therapist, school counselor or pastor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I like the title of the thread "THE HOLE" I was thinking I was about to read a story about a pvssy and I was right!! but just a different kind.

Look AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED, you need to read the DJ Bible and slowly set realistic goals and work towards them while taking babysteps until you figure out what you want in life. If I were you I would start to change my diet and slowly start excersizing in the gym to get more energy and self esteem because sleeping for 11 hours from 6pm is not healthy.

DJD
 
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