"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED

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it's like climbing up a rope, the more you pull and fight to get to the top the more your past holds you by the ankles and pulls you down. How the hell do you get out of this. I've never been succesfull with women, and the more i try the more i think it'll never happen.

It's that feeling of self pity and regret and it's draging me down.

Yesturday i crawld on the cautch and slept from 6pm to 5am this morning....I just didn't fill like doing anything other then lay there filling pity for my self....

HOW DID YOU GET OUT?????
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You have to happy with yourself before you can get anywhere with women.
 
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i'd work on yourself/your inner game and become happy w/ your life first. after that happens, start worrying about girls.
 
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You are displaying the classic symptoms of clinical depression. Please talk to someone, therapist, school counselor or pastor.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I like the title of the thread "THE HOLE" I was thinking I was about to read a story about a pvssy and I was right!! but just a different kind.

Look AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED, you need to read the DJ Bible and slowly set realistic goals and work towards them while taking babysteps until you figure out what you want in life. If I were you I would start to change my diet and slowly start excersizing in the gym to get more energy and self esteem because sleeping for 11 hours from 6pm is not healthy.

DJD
 
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