"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED

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it's like climbing up a rope, the more you pull and fight to get to the top the more your past holds you by the ankles and pulls you down. How the hell do you get out of this. I've never been succesfull with women, and the more i try the more i think it'll never happen.

It's that feeling of self pity and regret and it's draging me down.

Yesturday i crawld on the cautch and slept from 6pm to 5am this morning....I just didn't fill like doing anything other then lay there filling pity for my self....

HOW DID YOU GET OUT?????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You have to happy with yourself before you can get anywhere with women.
 
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i'd work on yourself/your inner game and become happy w/ your life first. after that happens, start worrying about girls.
 
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You are displaying the classic symptoms of clinical depression. Please talk to someone, therapist, school counselor or pastor.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I like the title of the thread "THE HOLE" I was thinking I was about to read a story about a pvssy and I was right!! but just a different kind.

Look AVERAGE & FRUSTRATED, you need to read the DJ Bible and slowly set realistic goals and work towards them while taking babysteps until you figure out what you want in life. If I were you I would start to change my diet and slowly start excersizing in the gym to get more energy and self esteem because sleeping for 11 hours from 6pm is not healthy.

DJD
 
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