"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The HB scale is not important

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The reason is that everyone has different tastes.

Sure there is a general trend of what most people like, but there's so much discrepency that it's almost pointless. If one person likes girls who are tall, dark hair and thin, he sees a girl who meets this expectation (let's call her "girl A"), he will think she's a hb9. If another person likes girls who are shorter and more curves, light hair, big breasts, then to him "girl A" is a plain hb7. Everyone has their type or types. Preferences with race and style differ greatly from guy to guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mountain

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if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Exactly :cheer:
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Seconded, I also have two scales, personality and looks. If a girl is super sweet and sexy in person a photo will never do her justice because you have to see her to understand the attraction.:whistle:
 
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