"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The HB scale is not important

Consent

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The reason is that everyone has different tastes.

Sure there is a general trend of what most people like, but there's so much discrepency that it's almost pointless. If one person likes girls who are tall, dark hair and thin, he sees a girl who meets this expectation (let's call her "girl A"), he will think she's a hb9. If another person likes girls who are shorter and more curves, light hair, big breasts, then to him "girl A" is a plain hb7. Everyone has their type or types. Preferences with race and style differ greatly from guy to guy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Exactly :cheer:
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Seconded, I also have two scales, personality and looks. If a girl is super sweet and sexy in person a photo will never do her justice because you have to see her to understand the attraction.:whistle:
 
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