Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The HB scale is not important

Consent

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The reason is that everyone has different tastes.

Sure there is a general trend of what most people like, but there's so much discrepency that it's almost pointless. If one person likes girls who are tall, dark hair and thin, he sees a girl who meets this expectation (let's call her "girl A"), he will think she's a hb9. If another person likes girls who are shorter and more curves, light hair, big breasts, then to him "girl A" is a plain hb7. Everyone has their type or types. Preferences with race and style differ greatly from guy to guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Exactly :cheer:
 

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mountain said:
if nothing else, it gives you a good idea of how the particular don juan percieves the challenge he faces. Higher the hb, more work and risk he believes it will require.
Seconded, I also have two scales, personality and looks. If a girl is super sweet and sexy in person a photo will never do her justice because you have to see her to understand the attraction.:whistle:
 
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