"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The handshake

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I don't really know where this belongs...

Well, the DJ Bible says that when meeting chicks, when you shake their hand (assuming you do), you have your palms up. Now, how do you shake? Vertical? Horizontal? Diagonal?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You don't, you lightly take her hand and turn it so the back of her hand is facing up then bring it up and kiss it, make sure you don't slobber on her but make her know your there.
 

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Originally posted by zerolx255
You don't, you lightly take her hand and turn it so the back of her hand is facing up then bring it up and kiss it, make sure you don't slobber on her but make her know your there.
You ****ing kidding me?

Hold your hand out vertically. Vertical is neutral.
 

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you're 14, don't handshake. trust me on this. just wave or hug if you know each other. handshakes dont make a 14 year old girl want to date you
 

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Originally posted by Javelin44
you're 14, don't handshake. trust me on this. just wave or hug if you know each other. handshakes dont make a 14 year old girl want to date you
Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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