Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The handshake

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I don't really know where this belongs...

Well, the DJ Bible says that when meeting chicks, when you shake their hand (assuming you do), you have your palms up. Now, how do you shake? Vertical? Horizontal? Diagonal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zerolx255

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You don't, you lightly take her hand and turn it so the back of her hand is facing up then bring it up and kiss it, make sure you don't slobber on her but make her know your there.
 

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Originally posted by zerolx255
You don't, you lightly take her hand and turn it so the back of her hand is facing up then bring it up and kiss it, make sure you don't slobber on her but make her know your there.
You ****ing kidding me?

Hold your hand out vertically. Vertical is neutral.
 

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you're 14, don't handshake. trust me on this. just wave or hug if you know each other. handshakes dont make a 14 year old girl want to date you
 

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Originally posted by Javelin44
you're 14, don't handshake. trust me on this. just wave or hug if you know each other. handshakes dont make a 14 year old girl want to date you
Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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